
You know, there are moments in our lives that change us -- that become part of who we are for the rest of our lives. Like getting married, having a baby, seeing Sufjan live or something.
I say this because I think one of those moments happened to me this weekend.
And I think it was when we were taking out our friend's weave.
It was Saturday night and 17 friends from all over the world had a dinner party at a friend's apartment. Ellen Page was the dinner chef or is it chief... and Cori Melton made brownies from scratch. Anywho, we were all a pretty giddy, having been abroad in various locations and now so gloriously reunited. After a good amount of talking, hugging, laughing, eating, singing, and dancing to Nelly (not Furtato, sorry sal) we decided that we could tackle the task of removing Eva aka Weava's hair weave. She had had it in for a while and was ready to wash her hair, so we decided to help her out.
It took five professional hair-braiders over 2 hours to turn Eva into Weava, so why we thought it would take us armatures less time to de-weava Eva, I don't know.
Five to six of us at a time worked on the African lioness's main. We got better at it as the hours rolled by -- developing systems of de-braiding and terms for the systems. We said things like, "Pass the weave bag!" and "I need a finisher on the left side!". We were in a race against the clock because we had to finish in time to catch the last metro back to the hostel and there was no way we were going to let our friend walk the streets of London with a half-row. It was very dramatic. We finished removing the last piece of weave right as the Coldplay song "Fix You" was ending and right as we had to leave to catch the metro. It was such a beautiful image of friendship. Some of us cried.

Ok, other things about London. The city is huge and trendy and historic and awesome, we all know this. But really, it was just so great to see all of those people. I kept singing in my head (and obviously sometimes aloud) the line from an Avett Brothers song "It's not where I am, it's who I'm with." And that's how I honestly feel. I love those people.
Traveling to and from, also in and around London was interesting to say the least. I am a bit wary about how specific I should be about details regarding traveling due to the amount of grief I already receive from my family (how many airports does Greensboro have again...). Everything was fine on the way to London until I got to the city and the metro was closed for the night and I had no idea where to take a bus to. Let's just say, a few hours hours, a few sketchy locations, and a few pay phone calls later I collapse hugged Kesley Paul in the middle of a bus station at 1.30 AM.At that point, I was ready to hug my friends (those who were still awake) and to get into my little hostel bed. But oh wait, even though I asked to be in the same room as them, I was assigned one really far away. So I shared the top bunk with Kelsey for the night. And the next night too...
All of the traveling TO London did not compare to the hilarity of the traveling situation FROM London. As I have stated in previous blogs, some of us are planners, and others of us are fly-by-the-seat-of-our-pantsers. Josh Walters and I fall into the latter group. We both had flights, in separate airports both of which are an hour from the city, at 8.30 on Monday morning, while our friends (excluding the Londoners) had left by Sunday afternoon. We also had no technical place to stay on Sunday night.
Yes, it is true, that after some of our friends left on Sunday afternoon we felt a little down-trodden and concerned about the traveling fate ahead of us. But this is not a sad story because Josh and I had a super time with Cori, Kendra and Andrew Fisher on Sunday night. We went to an awesome church, pastored by Tim Hughes (not as in the sibling of Molly and Kevin, but as in the writer of the song "Here I am to Worship"). We roamed the city at night -- Christmas lights are already up. We ate at a delish Asian fusion restaurant. We took couple pictures of London at night. It was an all around good time.

The catch came when Josh and I had to head back to Cori's house, the Wake Forest London Worrell house, where they are "not allowed to have overnight guests". Sooooo we did not stay over night because when you have to get up at 3.30 AM to catch a bus, it does not count as staying over night. Also, if nobody knows about it, it does not count either. So we were doubly safe. Many thanks go out to Cori Melton for being such a good mom to us -- printing out directions, writing down emergency phone numbers, making us a snack for the road. Many thanks go out to Josh Walters for being my protector on the streets of London in the wee hours of the morning. I quote Josh when I say, "Molly, I would never leave you alone in the sketchy suburbs of London. Unless there are knives involved, then it is everyman for himself." Thank you for that, Josh.
Other things we did -- see some sweet art, walk around, hug, take pictures in famous places, laugh, have a picnic in a park, walk around, hug, chase birds and squirrels, laugh, go to mass (where I had a coughing attack during a really quiet part), talk about creepy men in the hostel, laugh, lose Cori and Rebekah, hug, take the metro about a million times, cry.A note about being back in Galway:
I love it here, but it is freeeeeezing. Like, it is middle of January and numb hands cold. Also, I have a history paper due on Friday. And I miss my friends. Reality.









